Common Myths About Dildos, Debunked

Dildos are one of the oldest and most versatile sex toys, yet they are still surrounded by confusion and misinformation. Let’s set the record straight on some of the most persistent misconceptions about using and caring for non-vibrating pleasure tools.

Myth 1: They Are Only for Solo Use

The Reality: Dildos are incredibly popular for partner play. Whether used for penetration, shared external stimulation, or incorporated into foreplay, they are fantastic tools for introducing new sensations and variety into a shared experience. Strap-ons, in particular, are designed specifically for partnered fun, allowing both participants to engage actively.

Myth 2: The Best Dildos Must Look "Realistic"

The Reality: Pleasure comes in all shapes and sizes! Many people find that abstract, non-phallic shapes, those with interesting curves, or those designed specifically to hit a target (like the G-spot or P-spot) are far more effective than realistic replicas. Focus on the material (always body-safe silicone or glass) and the feel, not just the look.

Myth 3: You Can Use Any Household Lubricant

The Reality: This is a critical safety issue. Never use common household oils, lotions, or petroleum jelly (like Vaseline) with sex toys. These products can harbor bacteria, are difficult to clean off, and, most importantly, will permanently degrade and destroy body-safe silicone toys. You must only use water-based lubricant with silicone dildos to ensure longevity and safety.

Myth 4: Dildos Are Just for Vaginal or Anal Penetration

The Reality: Dildos are versatile tools for external stimulation as well. They can be used to massage the clitoris, nipples, perineum, or any other erogenous zone. Use them like a firm massage tool or press them against the body during foreplay to explore different types of pressure and sensation before or without entering the body.

Myth 5: A Quick Rinse is Enough to Clean Them

The Reality: To properly ensure hygiene, a dildo requires more than just a quick rinse. You must use a dedicated, gentle toy cleaner or mild, unfragranced antibacterial soap. Lather the entire surface, scrub gently for at least 20 seconds, rinse thoroughly until all soap is gone, and then pat the toy completely dry before storage. This prevents the buildup of bacteria and residue.

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