BDSM Toys And Bondage Gear – The Erotic Art of Restraints
Bondage, or better known as BDSM can be defined as, erotic practices which involve role-playing and incorporate sadomasochism, submission, dominance, discipline and bondage. BDSM abbreviated is B- for bondage and discipline, D- for dominance and submission, S- for sadism and masochism. Wikipedia defines BDSM - Discipline in BDSM is the practice in which the dominant sets rules which the submissive is expected to obey. When rules of expected behaviour are broken, punishment is often used as a means of disciplining.[1][2]
Restraints hold a mystifying and unique beauty all on their own; but when given permission by your mate to be bound by them sends one’s senses to enthralling erotic levels, which those people excited by the world of BDSM toys and bondage gear can only relate to.
Restraints thought of by many are not just your average handcuffs, ankle cuffs, and rope restraints. To anyone who knows the art of restraints, they are in fact anything that bounds your partner and keeps them from control. Restraints, therefore, include cuffs, ropes, ball and gag, bondage hoods, blindfolds, chastity devices, collars, and leads.
Bondage restraints do not just bind the physical body but your partner’s mind; submissively letting go to all freedoms. The dominator should consider it an honor to be trusted by their playmate to fulfill their whims and desires. Certain respect needs to be negotiated as to their limits and hold tight to your partner's wishes; physically stopping if being given a sign. Being caught in the moment of role play, it can be difficult to hold back or restrain one’s self; this is no excuse for disrespect of your partner's desires.
If you don’t already stock a selection of BDSM toys and bondage gear, then check out your trusted adult sex toys shop (Sex Toys Erotica) and look through some of the latest collections of restraints on offer. Familiarizing your partner and talking through how different bondage restraints and toys are used will make them feel less uncomfortable and scared of trying them. You don’t want to scare your partner whilst in the moment. The Fetish Fantasy Series offers a brilliant range of the latest handcuffs, ankle cuffs, spreaders, ropes, mouth gag, and BDSM and fetish kits to help get you started. Products are made from quality leather and soft materials, well made that will last for many years of bondage and fetish fun.
Alternatively, bondage tape is another option that you could use, it offers great flexibility and only sticks to itself. Tape often comes many colors and you can use it wherever you’d like- chair, bedpost, table, cupboard; it’s up to your imagination.
Ropes are one of our most top-selling restraint items sold in our BDSM toys store collection; versatile enough for the beginner through to those with advanced bondage rope tying skills. There is no limit to being able to tie up and restrict a person. Accentuating the body feature make for hot sexy erotic and sensual play.
Kinbaku is Japanese and an old form of bondage or BDSM which has been practiced for many centuries. It refers to the sensual, connective, artistic and sexual practice as a whole. The word Kinbaku means the light bonding of a person and Kinabu-bi means beauty of tight bonding. The Japanese bondage style of Kinbaku is the tying up of someone in simple yet intricate patterns, often with several pieces of thin rope made from jute, hemp or linen of approximately 6mm in diameter and up to 7-8 meters long. There are many rope tying patterns, I’ve counted up to twenty-five, however, I’m sure there are many more than that. A few more popular bondage rope tying patterns include - Single wrist binding, Both wrists binding, Handcuff binding, Prisoner handcuff binding, High hands behind the back binding, Legs bound together and Reverse handing shrimp binding.
No doubt about it, bondage and BDSM restraints can be a whole lot of fun, it lets your imagination run on high enabling the dominator to simulate a scene of punishment, domination or rape. There are some safety tips for using restraints which should be adhered to, however.
Make sure if you are using lockable restraints that you keep a spare key “just in case”. Always read instructions which come with your restraints; these include but are not limited to cuffs, swings and slings, rope, gags, humblers, and chastity devices. Safety always comes first. Otherwise, there is no limit as to your bondage play. As both partners become familiar and more trusting of each other the more fun can be had.
Want to read more on bondage and BDSM, read 6 Ways to Explore BDSM.
